reflection

The Fast Most Pleasing to God

Friday, February 20, 2026

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Scripture Verse

Isaiah 58:1-9a/Psalm 51:3-4/Matthew 9:14-15
Friday after Ash Wednesday
Today the Church places before us a powerful question: What kind of fasting truly pleases God? Through the prophet Isaiah, the Lord speaks clearly. The people were fasting, wearing sackcloth and ashes, bowing their heads, but their hearts were far from Him. They fasted externally, yet continued injustice, quarreling, and oppression. And so, God says: “Is this the fasting that I wish?” The fast most pleasing to God is not merely about giving up food. It is about giving up sin. It is about giving up selfishness. It is about giving up whatever keeps us from loving God and neighbor. Isaiah tells us what true fasting looks like: releasing those bound unjustly, feeding the hungry, sheltering the homeless, clothing the naked, refusing to turn our backs on those in need. In other words, true fasting leads to justice and charity. It changes how we treat people. Psalm 51 deepens this message. “A heart contrite and humbled, O God, you will not spurn.” God is not impressed by empty sacrifices. He desires a broken and humble heart. The fast that pleases Him begins inside. It is fast from pride. A fast from anger. A fast from gossip. A fast from indifference. Then in the Gospel, Jesus speaks of Himself as the Bridegroom. “The days will come when the bridegroom is taken away from them, and then they will fast.” Our fasting during Lent is not a gloomy ritual. It is an expression of longing for the Bridegroom. We fast because we desire Christ more deeply. We fast to create space in our hearts for Him. But if our fasting makes us irritable, judgmental, or harsh with others, then we have missed the point. If we give up chocolate but refuse to forgive, we have not yet understood the fast God desires. The fast most pleasing to God is this: To deny ourselves so that others may live. To humble ourselves so that grace may grow. To turn away from sin so that love may increase. And when we fast this way, God makes a promise: “Then your light shall break forth like the dawn… Then you shall call, and the Lord will answer, ‘Here I am.” That is the goal of Lent, not simply self-denial, but deeper communion. Not just discipline, but transformation. Not just ashes on our foreheads, but mercy in our hearts. May this Lent be a season where our fasting becomes love in action, and our contrite hearts draw us closer to Christ, our Bridegroom. Amen.